How to get People to Like you Immediately in 3 Seconds
Your success in Business or at your job will directly depend on the number of people liking you. For if they like you, you will get their business, and that goes also to any Corporate environment that you are working for.
Having said that, it is also imperative for you to understand that not all of the people whom you come across are indebted or obligated to like you. So, the skill here is, to detect if the person is willing to walk the walk and talk the talk. And the following tips that we share out here will give you the ability even to identify those remote chances and capitalize on them.
Why must People like you in your Organization?
It can probably be the game changer between, being able to stay on job or getting sacked. We all live in a very volatile Economy. Things change so rapidly that the only certainty about this uncertainty is, getting sacked, laid off, or benched indefinitely without a red dime called compensation.
And we all know what happens when a month starts off without a pay check? Calamity, confusion and more chaos and more trouble. So much so, that people are driven out of their homes to car parks and night shelters. Yes! very true. Most families wouldn’t be able to sustain one month without a pay check.
The irony is most of the employees think that if they rise up everyday on time and punch their cards on time and do their jobs on time, will ensure that their jobs would be safe and sound. No! you are wrong. Think a second, even during the times of Economic stability, the men who worked with the steel company, did all of the above mentioned tasks, yet when time came for them to be Retired, Companies retired them, though they were able, strong and willing to continue in the job force. Yet, there were a smaller number of employees who were retained. Did you know the reason?
The reason is simple, these group of people knew to whom to smile to, to whom to salute to, to whom to stand up to, to whom to bow to, and “the whom”, continues on. In other words, these few had what is known as people skills. They knew their Tribe to which they should render loyalty to. A kind of intelligence that is never taught at Colleges or Universities, yet still dominates and dictates every work place that you can think of.
Today, the climate is a bit different, the environment offers way more opportunities an individual could capitalize to catapult his or her career or business.
Here are the List of skills that when used properly would win you more friends
Greeting people first with smile and wave
We all know that time is precious and priceless. Specially in an environments where people spend most of the working hours behind their Computer screens. Of course this is not to say there won’t be opportunities for you to meet people, but you ought to be a bit creative in seizing such opportunities.
At your work place-How to Wish?
Most people head to their work station with a long face, too deeply involved with the jobs that ought to be completed. Now when you come across them, simply give a shout out, “Hey! Good Morning, Have a great day”
Simple as that, just do this, and see the change you will experience when you come across them again. Remember to say in your heart, ” I am exited to meet you today, Enjoy your day” So, every time you say a wish, it would be 100 % sincere and honest. For people are equipped with sensors to spot a Fake WISH. And make sure you say it with the widest smile possible.
How to Reciprocate a Wish at your work place ?
Of course when people see and hear your actions, for sure, they would also mimic it. In other words, they would also be the first ones to wish you at times. Now the secret lies in the way you Reply to their wish.
The secret
Your reaction should be way out of the ordinary, conveying to the Person, that you are truly happy and exited to receive the wish. Of course, have a catchy phrase to respond, “Buddy! You made my day, enjoy! your day too”
More so, treat the person as though your whole life depended on that person. When you do this, for sure this other person would stop to think, “Wow!, what a character?”This single secret would separate you from the crowd. You will stand tall, for this secret alone would be the Game changer.
Never stop to talk
When you do this to an all complete stranger, you will make them apprehensive at times. For most people are programmed to view strangers with suspicion. We can’t blame them too. That is one of the reasons that Recommendation and Reputation go a long way in removing these thistles out of your way.
Well, coming back, make sure that your continue to walk at the same phase that got you started off. This is very critical. For you ought to know that people observe you without your knowledge. For any slight increase in momentum or anxiety would be spotted by others in ways that you wouldn’t want them to, and that is probably the last thing you want too.
So the best possible way here would be to convey to this person that your have no time to chit chat with her or for that matter with anybody and your sole objective would be to offer a wish of Courtesy, period and head off.
These actions would clearly convey to all around your intentions in clear black and white and that you are respecter of time and you are equally busy too.